How to Attract Any Girl You Want

By Brad Kadinski


Men usually hope to attract many women who are beautiful and desirable, even if they deny that. But we still have to find out what attracts them to us. We see men who get the girl really easily, while we see others who haven't a clue and are still trying to find the answer.

The first thing that you should do is to assess your physical appearance. Do you have a muscular body or a handsome face? Are you tall and lean or short and stout? Well, its undeniable that the first thing a woman will notice in a man is how he looks. The solution to this is to flaunt your asset! If you have a lean body, then wear clothes that will show off your figure.

Smile a lot at her if you have a white smile with perfect teeth. Don't wear a long hairstyle or have a lot of facial hair if your face is handsome. Carry yourself well with good posture because that will make you appear more impressive.

Remember, confidence is tangible - the more proud you feel, the more attractive you'll appear. Don't slouch in grunge; maintain good posture and a fashionable wardrobe. If fashion were exclusively for women, why would there be Men's Fashion magazines? Get out there in your best clothing, making sure it fits the scene you'll be approaching. For example, when out in a bar or small club, you should wear casual clothing that doesn't look too flashy, slightly less expensive than what an average guy would wear.

Or you could wear a nice suit at the coffee bar to distinguish you from all the other guys there in jeans and sweaters. Have your own personal style but don't be strange about it. Naturally, the first thing that's necessary for attracting a female is to know how to begin a dialogue with her.

Communication is important and the way you talk to a woman can make or break your chance of creating attraction. Knowing how to start and run a conversation is critical. This is not only applicable when communicating with women but with other people in general. We talk to promote a product, ask for discounts, get information from others, share stories with friends or even influence people into believing our principles.

With regard to females, it's wise to let trust build initially through talking. Discuss the interests you share along with news events or situations in your life and notice if she responds. See how she's talking and moving and which of the subjects really appeals to her.

Keep the talk fun, light and exciting. Women love to talk and they love men whom they can interact well and with whom they can share their stories including their emotions. Maintain eye contact while talking. Unknown to a lot of guys, women are easily attracted to a man who stares at them. This makes their heart melt and they feel flattered by such act.

Remember not to project hostility or discomfort when looking at her - maintain eye contact and warmth, so she knows you are seriously interested in her. Also; when chatting with a female, don't become a complainer who has to bring up the stress of a difficult job with a difficult boss for crappy pay - nothing turns a woman off faster than a man who whimpers and whines about his life.

Women know how to nag and they don't like men who fit into that category so speak in a nice tone. Pay attention to signs and behave accordingly because you can see how a woman really feels by her body language, which is always there for you to read.

Be watching for these signs, and prepared to adapt to the situation as called for. Does she seem interested in you? Now is the time to confidently get her phone number. Does she seem eager to get away from you? Then you should politely disengage.




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