Many people are having a partner but fail in many aspects of their relationship especially when it comes to intimacy. Many couples ruin their relationship in many creative ways. You may know couples that you can feel their hostility and criticism towards each other. They are being sarcastic and sometimes even humiliate their partner in front of everyone. As strange as it may seem, it doesn't mean that they do not love each other.
Couple who understand their relationship is at stake and want to save it, may benefit from therapy. However, many couple wake up when it already late when they discover their partner has betrayed them and the whole system is not functioning anymore, Therapy may help even in those situation given that the couple do not want to give up on their relationship.
Many of us react from our guts and justify it by claiming that that's what we felt: this is the way I fell so this is my "real" reaction. But the sad truth is that gut reactions do not serve us at all, not when we are on the road and irritated by a stupid driver and with our children, partners and definitely when a relationship is in a sensitive condition. We should ask ourselves whether we wanted to say something that improves the situation or we just want to hurt and humiliate the partner.
A therapy will allow us to examine our behavior and our patterns that damage the relationship; it will help us restore faith in a deep process that can change the way we communicate with our partner. It can bring back love and faith to our relationship or make us realize that we want to move own and get a divorce but in a respectful way.
Many spouses are unaware of their contribution to the shaky relationship. One must not forget that marriage is a dynamic between two people and two people that both sides share responsibility for the interaction. One of the problems common among couples who come to couples therapy is recrimination when neither side is willing to look at his slide on. Along with progress of each party learns to care first and foremost take responsibility for his part.
Couple who understand their relationship is at stake and want to save it, may benefit from therapy. However, many couple wake up when it already late when they discover their partner has betrayed them and the whole system is not functioning anymore, Therapy may help even in those situation given that the couple do not want to give up on their relationship.
Many of us react from our guts and justify it by claiming that that's what we felt: this is the way I fell so this is my "real" reaction. But the sad truth is that gut reactions do not serve us at all, not when we are on the road and irritated by a stupid driver and with our children, partners and definitely when a relationship is in a sensitive condition. We should ask ourselves whether we wanted to say something that improves the situation or we just want to hurt and humiliate the partner.
A therapy will allow us to examine our behavior and our patterns that damage the relationship; it will help us restore faith in a deep process that can change the way we communicate with our partner. It can bring back love and faith to our relationship or make us realize that we want to move own and get a divorce but in a respectful way.
Many spouses are unaware of their contribution to the shaky relationship. One must not forget that marriage is a dynamic between two people and two people that both sides share responsibility for the interaction. One of the problems common among couples who come to couples therapy is recrimination when neither side is willing to look at his slide on. Along with progress of each party learns to care first and foremost take responsibility for his part.
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