As we live, we nurture death. Death is the apparent end that every human being is destined to experience. According to the well-known Japanese author, Haruki Murakami, death isn't the opposite of life but an inherent part of it. It is a truth that we can't change. So when we go through a death of relative, friend, family member, colleague or a loved-one it creates a painful bearing in our lives. The type of sorrow and pain that's too deep, neither genuineness nor kindness can cure. Nonetheless, we don't have a choice but to go through the course and realise something from it. Grieving is a natural process that allows us to ponder and eventually be at peace enough to go on.
According to Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, a Swiss American psychiatric specialist who pioneered several near death researches, there is what we name "The Five Stages of Grief", in her theory she explained that not everybody can go through every phase, nor in particular order however it's the normal reaction to loss, sickness or death.
The five stages of grieving is generally identified as the acronym DABDA. Letter D, that is the first stage, stands for denial. This phase is characterised by the temporary conscious and unconscious defence mechanism of denial. Letter A, the second stage, stands for anger. This stage is characterised by a deep emotion of rage towards oneself or to others in attempt to release tension that's brought about by the distressing incident. Letter B, the third stage, stands for bargaining. This phase is characterised by extreme feeling of hope that it's possible to postpone or negotiate the situation. Letter D, the fourth phase, stands for depression. The stage is characterised by feelings of mourning, pain, detachment and fear. The last letter A, which is the fifth and final stage, stands for acceptance. This stage is characterised by gradual acceptance of the situation and the person begins to move on.
As human beings, we have high regards our loved-ones, in connection to that, we perform a funeral ceremony to remember the life of the individual who passed away. In the Merlion City, Funeral Service Singapore offers a comprehensive coverage and concern on the culture, beliefs, practices and religion of the departed. As a matter of fact, funeral services in Singapore reveres the religion of departed persons by offering customs and belief sensitive rites such as Buddhist, Taoist, Christian or Catholic funeral rites services.
Unquestionably, losing a loved one is one of the most distressing ocassions an individual can experience. It is emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually overwhelming not to mention that whilst going through this overwhelming process you're expected to organise for the departed's funeral ceremonies.
According to Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, a Swiss American psychiatric specialist who pioneered several near death researches, there is what we name "The Five Stages of Grief", in her theory she explained that not everybody can go through every phase, nor in particular order however it's the normal reaction to loss, sickness or death.
The five stages of grieving is generally identified as the acronym DABDA. Letter D, that is the first stage, stands for denial. This phase is characterised by the temporary conscious and unconscious defence mechanism of denial. Letter A, the second stage, stands for anger. This stage is characterised by a deep emotion of rage towards oneself or to others in attempt to release tension that's brought about by the distressing incident. Letter B, the third stage, stands for bargaining. This phase is characterised by extreme feeling of hope that it's possible to postpone or negotiate the situation. Letter D, the fourth phase, stands for depression. The stage is characterised by feelings of mourning, pain, detachment and fear. The last letter A, which is the fifth and final stage, stands for acceptance. This stage is characterised by gradual acceptance of the situation and the person begins to move on.
As human beings, we have high regards our loved-ones, in connection to that, we perform a funeral ceremony to remember the life of the individual who passed away. In the Merlion City, Funeral Service Singapore offers a comprehensive coverage and concern on the culture, beliefs, practices and religion of the departed. As a matter of fact, funeral services in Singapore reveres the religion of departed persons by offering customs and belief sensitive rites such as Buddhist, Taoist, Christian or Catholic funeral rites services.
Unquestionably, losing a loved one is one of the most distressing ocassions an individual can experience. It is emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually overwhelming not to mention that whilst going through this overwhelming process you're expected to organise for the departed's funeral ceremonies.
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